Mainstream rappers are not real men. They fear being the object of desire. Yes, D'Angelo is singing to a woman, but desire is not something you can force, manage, control. Once you are open to desire, you are open to all forms and sources of desire. D'Angelo fearlessly enters the zone of sexual ambiguity. We are free to desire him in any way, from any direction. It is this ambiguity, this openness that the mainstream rapper fears most, and attempts to check by positing himself not as the object of desire but as the one who has access to objects of desire. The mainstream rapper wants your envy, not your desire. But envy is cheap, safe, dull. To be real, you must be open, you must be fearless.
heterosexual male who has been listening to voodoo more than usual lately, particularly this song, and who is unabashedly 3000% attracted to d'angelo. great post, great song.
This made me think of DMX's video for "Ruff Ryders Anthem." It features a bunch of glistening, shirtless thugs cavorting and jostling about in a prisonyard. Are the blatant homoerotic overtones intentional or are the people who made it completely clueless?
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